http://www.thefword.org.uk/features/2007/08/can_burlesque_b

I am smug and spamming now

Congratulations Chloe!  Wonderful article.  I like the whole idea of burlesque.  I also don't see anything wrong with the fact that this kind of confidence energizes a relationship.  It's great if it pleases your partner.  Just as long as it remains predominantly self-directed.  

Good for you, you smug spammer.  

way to go!

Congratulations on getting your article published, Chloe! I enjoyed reading it. I like the burlesque name you chose; it has a flowing sound & it's great it has a special meaning for you, too. I bookmarked the site so I could look thru it more later.  

Whatever floats your boat, Chloe!    Don't let anybody give you any shit about your choices.

Congrats Chloe!

That's a great article Chloe, well done.
Was my friend any help to you? I know her page is a bit scary but she's really sweet and kind when you get to know her.

I never got round to contacing her as I did this ina rush for the dealdine after leeds festival lol.